My favorite Domer has been home just over a week now, and it’s rained almost every day.
No tennis. No golf. No outside barbecues.
Shoot, I’m struggling to walk my pudgy pooch between showers!
Yet every day your kids are home feels like a holiday.
You parents with little kids don’t understand this. You’re not supposed to.
Deep inside, you’re thinking, “Just give me a few hours to myself — away from the taxi-ing to and from activities, away from the incessant unanswerable questions (why do birds have wings?), away from the internal and external pressures of parenting.”
But trust me, you’ll live to eat those words!
I know I am.
People older and wiser than I told me to “enjoy every minute with your little ones.” I did, but sometimes, when the pressures added up and it felt like I’d never have another moment’s peace, I found myself wishing for an island somewhere, a place I could go ALL BY MYSELF where there were no responsibilities and every day was sunny. . . .
But that’s pie-in-the-sky, isn’t it?
Watching your darling fly away from the nest (whether it’s to college, marriage, the armed forces, or a job clear across the country) leaves you with a bittersweet ache in your heart.
You miss them, certainly, but it’s right that they grow up — and go away.
Congratulate yourself — you’ve given them roots and wings!
Besides, their flight frees you to do some of the things you always wanted to.
To reinvent yourself, as it were.
Unless, of course, you have other “little birds” still at home.
Then all bets are off!